Flagman, Can't blame you, moving residences especially when you must depend on others to move your "stuff" is a terrible experience at least for me it was.
When we bought this house all I "thought" I needed was everything on one level. WRONG. But that was not a thought in the wrong direction. But my next move was rather accidental I bought a low step-in shower (cheap 15 years ago) I installed it ( by myself) at that time. I knew my legs were failing me fast, but not actually why, I still don't. So I was kind of planning ahead. Since this was to be my retirement home, I was building for the unknown and unforeseen future.
It's my opinion we crips can build for ourselves and not decrease the value of our homes. Just about anything we do will increase the value by making the home more convenient for AB's, if we do it right. Wider doorways/doors, accessible bathrooms and showers are more valuable than not. I did buy a one level home but I did have a step down 9" into the back closed in porch, much later I had to install a ramp there. I bought an older home so the original front bathroom door turned out to be too small for my wheelchair, the whole bathroom is too small for my consistent use, but when I decided to use a back maintenence room as a full bath, I had luckily just enough room for an accessible shower and all. I won't try to tell you I was bright enough to know all this originally, but I did have the vision to imagine some of the future need.
So it is very easy to say move, and get something more convenient, or that will fit your needs better. There is far more than simply that, to relocation.
I get that. I cannot believe European people and the English Isles people are much different than we Americans are! Our friends and neighbors, mean a lot and are a big part of our support system, moving residences means leaving that behind, and creating a new support system. That takes a long time for some of us.