by Burgerman » 24 Jan 2024, 03:49
Fair enough.
You do understand though that social services are there to support you and not to tell you what to do? They can make suggestions. If you want the lift out, just do it and tell them to wind their necks in.
You were probably joking. So I am not really talking about you. But to the many people that really do not take control over their lives and really do think that someone else is in charge and can/should tell them what to do! I meet one or two that are very institutionalised in this way this quite often. They really do think that people like the social services, nurses, wcs, council etc are there to tell them what to do. They are products of the nanny state, they do not understand that its their life! Everything is their CHOICE. They never seem to grasp that they can do whatever they choose to best suit themselves! And just go with the narrative.
I was asked to help program a chair for a freind of a freind last year. Seems to happen quite regularly. It was bashing in door frames, hurting hands, crushing feet etc, all as per usual in stock vague delayed action mode. Or stock hovercraft mode if you prefer. They are all like that! So she was barely moving it all day long. Its frankly restricting and dangerous. She was terrified that WCS might "find out" someone has messed with it.
Some just do not get life at all. 10 mins later there was the usual amazed look on face! Set to speed 1, (she didnt believe it would actually move or steer) she could ACCURATELY and slowly get from bedroom to kitchen with chair precisely following the joystick, without smashing into door framess or it failing to move/turn or whatever, for the first time after many years. Same look on her face I see every time. Took a year for someone to convince her it was "safe" and "allowed" and was still super nervous about what the WCS would think. I told her they dont.
Those that are institutionalised, that think everything is someone elses job or responsibility and that the "experts" know everything live very restricted and controlled lives. They just dont get that its THEIR job to make decisions, break a few eggs, do as they choose or decide. Stuff the "rules"... Do what is best for you in your own opinion.