And though I have no clue how you present yourself in public and in a questioning situation just how strong your personality is.
Very!
You wouldn't want to disagree or have a contrary opinion without all the facts and logic at your fingertips, because you will be made to look a fool in front of your piers very comprehensively.
I run
only on reason, logic, and facts. I present them very carefully in the correct order and leave the opposition nowhere to hide. I think that after a few dealings with me they get a bit worried.
They either have no choice but to see it my way, or confused weak ones tell people I bully them. I don't, unless they call the facts and logic/reason "bullying".
They feel bullied because they don't like where it leads the argument! Because this argument makes them look stupid. If I wasn't right I wouldn't be in the argument in the first place. I also never get heated or insulting. Calm, accurate, and reasoned arguments with evidence is all it requires.
I love it when I get religious nuts banging on the door. I let them in, sit them down and listen. Right up till they make the first illogical unsupported claim. At which point we stop and retrace the conversation so they can see where it left the rails. And they have to explain how they "know" this. Can take hours. They get totally exasperated. I hand out the fossils I keep for this purpose off the fireplace to their children too while frustrating the "grown ups". Complete with all the carbon dating data, and a page of real info - all of which contradicts their brainwashing.
Its fun! Most try to escape/run away. But I had one that kept coming back on and off for years and was always hanging about until he realised it really was all bollocks. He now wears the noodly T shirt! The odd one *thinks*.